Your task is not to seek for love but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it. Rumi
Something similar can be said about the love of God and even God Himself. Our task is merely to “get out of the way” and the love of God will abound, indeed God Himself will abound. But the challenge is finding the gift of discernment which allows these barriers to become conscious; and this step alone is often all it takes to allow the barrier to fall.
These barriers are always some form of ego, some insidious self-aggrandizement which has ensconced itself as an essential part of our identity.